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heartbreak? suffering?  

oneladybrijit 66F
298 posts
4/4/2012 8:01 pm
heartbreak? suffering?


. . . and then . . . .

Sometimes we bloggers share our past, and in some cases it's not pretty. In fact it's quite horrific. Some of us try to keep it as brief as possible, as concise as possible, as we know just how horrific it was being there. Then there might be others who will elaborate, and add lots of detail. It all depends on why we are sharing.

Perhaps a good way to work out why someone shares their past, is to look at how they share it. If it is just in brief, with barely any detail, maybe they are not sharing it because they really want to. Perhaps, they are only sharing their past, so that it is out there, and then if someone wants to know, they get referred to the person's blogs, getting told, it's all in there, feel free to read it, and if you have any questions, I will be happy to answer them. The fact being that the person is glad the past is past, and would be happy to never ever have to revisit it.

There might be others, who want to share their past, partly because they have not dealt with it, partly because they want to understand what actually happened, and partly to get sympathy. These people probably need some understanding caring people in their lives, and if they find that via their blog, then that can only be seen as good by me.

Then there might be attention seekers. Once again, an attention seeker has issues, only unlike as with other people, these particular people might never get the help they need, as they are unable to share what really happened, if anything actually happened. Usually an attention seeker has at least one really horrific experience in their past, so bad that they just can't go there, and they will go on about any other incident, except the one they really would be better off dealing with.

Happy Easter!



SirTeezalot 74M
21966 posts
4/5/2012 6:31 pm

The only reason that I share my past is because the history books have got it so very wrong.

Sir Teezalot

WAR IS ABSURD


oneladybrijit 66F
420 posts
4/6/2012 6:02 pm


Han54boat 71M
11637 posts
4/7/2012 11:51 am

I shared most the current times. The past can't be change or understood. There is just no enough of information to make a good judgment call. It is just a viewpoint. A viewpoint has many sides. One thing, putting it on paper does help.
Happy Easter,


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oneladybrijit 66F
420 posts
4/8/2012 2:49 am

You do share the current times. I read your blog regularly. It's different, and sometimes I need to just accept.


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