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A note
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A note There might be bad men on this site. There might even be awful men. I don't tend to meet them through here, or anywhere else online. Pretty much all the bad or not nice men in my life were met out there in the real world. The men I met here were of the highest quality, the nicest men, just there were issues that I did not check into prior to meeting them. I do know what the issues were, and haven't met any men since I worked that out. There was a slight glitch in this formula, as since I met both the man of my dreams, and the love of my life, any other man will seem like less than the best; so I really don't see any point in worrying about meeting anything other than men I see as potential friends these days. I did meet a great love of my life through here, and I was in the wrong emotional place when we met. He didn't see me for what I am. I was not myself and presented very differently to what I normally am. The man of my dreams decided that I was "in love" with him, and has never bothered to really find out what I am. He has only ever made assumptions about me based on the most minimal information. As a result he is now in my past. I accept all of that, and if I make contact with a man, he needs to be aware that it is most likely nothing more than civil or friendly, as once a relationship is in my past, I tend to be nice, and nothing else. I work hard at putting any past relationship in the never to be touched again basket, as I know the heartbreak caused by pursuing what you can't have. Like many others, my heart has been fractured once too often. I don't think these would have had the effect they had, if I had not lost my home through the actions of a man a few years ago, and soon after had a really precious man die suddenly a week after he told me he loved me. It's not a case of I will never go there. That's an assumption. It's just that it will take a lot to go there again, because like most others, each time I love someone new, I do love him more than I have loved any other in my past, whether he deserves my love or not. It really pays to sift out men who don't quite fit the "glove" that will match me, and then only get to know the ones that fit that mould. That way when we do get attached, it can be counted as a "right" relationship, and not a waste. Recently I made friends with a few men who seem really nice. They all seem to be in time out, or maybe even gone, for whatever reason. It's fine. That's the beauty of only making friends. When they disappear, it doesn't usually hurt at all. Something I don't mention these days as a rule. I do love my friends, and usually quite a lot, in the nicest way. That is nothing like being in love, and it does not mean it's not possible to cross from that into in love, however for that to happen would take a lot, involving two people, both the man and me, not just me or him. I do not believe in "one way streets" and won't walk them. I only go down "two way streets", so when men think that I am in love with them, and I am saying, no I am not, I get really frustrated and annoyed, to the point that I can get annoyed enough to just walk away for good. 
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Not all the women in here are bad neither despite the fact you would only expect the desperate to cum anywhere near this place. But then I am at a stage in life when I am more interested in inhibited conversation than a roll in the hay with a playboy bunny. Sir Teezalot WAR IS ABSURD
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