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The last couple days
Posted:Nov 29, 2016 11:30 am
Last Updated:Dec 1, 2016 9:05 pm
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Good morning I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. Mine is definitely there.

These are a few pics of my Maui experience so far.

The ones I'm willing to share, anyway.

I walked the beach one day. Met several people.

One in particular was interesting.

I will call him a beach hustler.

Before I spoke to him, I saw him with another guy. They looked to be a couple or at least intimate. Next thing I know, he 8s talking to me.

He starts the hustle with that guy was someone he didn't know. He had an open bottle of wine. I took a swig, and shared my smoke with him.

He also offered to sell anything I needed, starting with the smoke. And even though he knew I was with someone, he offered sex as well. He said it would be fun to hang out everyday.

I chuckled, this guy was a true hustle. But, it was a fun interaction.

The guy i am with and i went half way to Hana before he decided he had enough rain. I'm tackling Hana today while he is working.

I went to Lahaina yesterday. It was an enjoyable trip. Met someone from Kentucky, Richmond, actually. He was there with his friend on a cruise ship stop. Go figure.

I was in Fleetwoods enjoying some oysters at the time. Found out I missed an impromptu concert by Mick Fleetwood, Sammy hagar, and Steven Tyler on Saturday. I know it had to be good.

Hope everyone had a great Thanksgiving weekend.

Off to see some more sights.









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my 3 favorite things
Posted:Nov 25, 2016 4:51 pm
Last Updated:Nov 29, 2016 12:10 pm
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Good afternoon, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. Mine is definitely there.

I have a fwb in Maui. All I had to do was get there. Believe me, I have never been to Maui, much less then Hawaii.

I decided to make this my 60th birthday present to myself.

When I landed last night, this is what I had waiting for me.




And, no that's not actually a pic of my guy.

Three of my favorite things.

I will finish this later.

have a great day
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at the airport
Posted:Nov 24, 2016 2:55 am
Last Updated:May 3, 2024 2:11 pm
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Good morning, I hope this finds wyou with that secret smile on your face. Mine will be there sometime today through these multitude of time changes.

I am sitting at the Lousiville airport, waiting for my flight to board. Who knew this many people would be here.

I am on the first leg of my birthday present to myself.

I will be landing in Houston sometime this morning.

I made sure I packed the essentials. A lot of edibles. Yes I said edibles. I will sleep like a baby.

Thats a good thing, since I have not had any sleep at all. I will be flying all day.

I know between, the beers, edibles, and occasional smoke I will get from my smoker, I will be fine.

Happy Thanksgiving to everybody. Eat some turkey for me.

This happens to be the time of the year my and i and some other females usually take a trip.

It's me myself this year, but the candy at the end of the trip is all that.

Have a wonderful day, enjoy your time with your friends and/or family.
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What's your pleasure
Posted:Nov 22, 2016 10:17 pm
Last Updated:Nov 24, 2016 2:48 am
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Good evening I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. Mine is there, and will be there again.

So, I had a meet n greet the other night. I don't make it a habit of spending the night with the guy at the same time.

Any how, for some reason, that rule got broken.

I was not prepared at all. If I am spending the night with someone, I have my lil packed bag with me.

Not tonight.

Our discussion at one point:
He: I wear condoms until I get to know you.
Mek, that's great, but I have a prolonged latex allergy. If I had sex with his latex condoms, I would have the worst yeast infection. I'm like, naaaaa. As much as I want too, we make a run to the drugstore.
He: ok, but you have to go in and buy them.

Next point of conversation, brought by him as well.

We are still siting outside enjoying the night ambience.

He: I don't eat pussy the first couple of times.
Me: I'm like, really, really.
He: don't take this the wrong way, but I usually wait until til I know the person.
Me: that's ok, if I'm not getting my pussy ate, I can wait to suck your dick.

He looked at me like, really, and I said really.

We did laugh and laugh about the conversation.

Headed to the drug store,
Got back to the house,
and proceeded to enjoy some pleasure.

I'm still pissed because I didn't get my pussy ate. But, I enjoyed the time.

With that being said, not having my pussy ate, made me realize how important it is to my playtime pleasure.

What's your pleasure?

Have a wonderful evening.
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my 60th birthday
Posted:Nov 20, 2016 11:08 pm
Last Updated:Dec 3, 2016 6:09 pm
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Good evening, i hope this finds you that that secret smile on your face. Mine is there, and it will make a funny blog.

The passed 2 days have ben soooooo busy.

We got home from a jon, on Thursday night.

We are on another job now in another city.

Then, I'm off to Maui for a 10 days. My birthday present to myself.

It seems I need more time in the day. I don't get to blog, and I love it. I did blog on Thursday, pictures and all. It is in blog land somewhere.

I blogged again this morning, its in blog land as well. I am trying this for the third time.

Anyway, I turned 60 on November 18th.

60 years ago, my mamma rejoiced as she pushed out this little girl, the third oldest of 10. I'm happy she kept me and took me home.

One thing I miss is the card that would always arrive in the mail from mamma. She always made a cake for each one of us, and had some sort of present. That was our day. The only day when you live in a large family that was yours. To me birthdays are very special.

My planned a lil dinner at a restrauant she picked. It was fun.

I had a meet n greet at the same place. I figure, what the hell, I was already there.

He didn't stay but, he talked me into breaking one of my meet n greet rules.

Thats ok, it was my pleasure.

Anyway, my one issue with being 60, is I didn't think I would be single this long.

I want to spend time with somebody before i get really, really old.

It was an enjoyable night, with family and friends. None of my girls friends made it though. But, I understand.





Then, I spent the night putting that secret smile on my face.

Have a great evening.
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6.00 worth
Posted:Nov 12, 2016 5:07 am
Last Updated:Nov 20, 2016 7:40 am
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Good morning I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. Mine is there.

A couple nights ago, I was on a date.

We were headed to our destination when we saw the sign for the strip club.

He had mentioned it a couple times since we passed it on the way in, so I looked at him and said let's go.

We did.

The young man at the door, he looked just barely legal. Said there was a 6.00 cover.

7 if you are ugly, and 8 if you are a bagger. We chuckled.

I looked at him with a straight face and said I hope I see 6.00 worth of tits.

He was speechless, until I convinced him I was joking.

I didn't see 6.00 worth of tits on all the girls combined.

But, they could shake their booties.

A lap dance would have been fun.

All in all the spontaneity of the moment was fun.

For me though, i find the local swingers club more enjoyable. And, we can partake in the fun.

Have a great day.
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Think, before you beat on the door.
Posted:Oct 14, 2016 5:37 am
Last Updated:Oct 15, 2016 7:11 pm
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Good morning I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your. Somebody definitely could use hers. I might have to go stray hunting.

This might be a lil crude, but it was worth the laugh.

We just finished up a job in Detroit, which is not one of my favorite cities to work in.

Anyway, I was on the job site taking my morning dump. This was not one of those in and done deals.

This is the 10 minute dump. The one where you can sit on the toilet and read a book, get on Facebook, talk with your friends, take a bath, or anything else you feel like doing. You know that kind of dump.

All of a sudden, I hear this I Bam Bam Bam on the door.

I'm thinking to myself holy s***, at least let me get finished here.

I'm also thinking one of the girls must have to use the bathroom awfully bad.

I'm like okay get off the toilet. I didn't use the air freshener I figure they can come into the bathroom the way it is. Especially if they're in that much of a hurry.

I open the door and this dude is standing there with a clipboard and a helmet. This conservative, straight-laced, serious looking dude.

He says to me, I'm the building inspector.

I'm thinking, big f****** deal. This job site has 20 women on it what makes you think one of us wouldn't be taking a morning shit.

I look at him, with the straightest face, and say if you go in there you will die. And I continue to nonchalantly walk away.

I hear him say I guess I can wait a few minutes before I go in there. I am laughing my f****** ass off. Teach you to beat on the women's bathroom when the door is locked.

In fact I laughed my ass off about the whole thing. I told all the women on the job site even the women not on my crew. They laughed their asses off.

Hell, somebody made it to the superintendent before I did. She goes to me Linda, I cannot believe you did that and she laughed.

We're still laughing about it a couple days later.

What did you do for a laugh today.
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Just a Lil fun
Posted:Oct 6, 2016 8:52 am
Last Updated:Oct 9, 2016 5:35 am
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Good morning I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. Somebody put mine there please.

I was out the other night with my and some friends.

I saw this dude on stilts. I thought, mmmmmmm

My mischievous side set in.

I asked if we could do pics. Obviously he said yes.

I had a blast.



When I saw the last one I went holy shit. I was too on point.

I showed it to stilt guy, he went oh shit.

It was a few minutes,of unplanned pleasure.

Have some unexpected fun.
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Wandering emails
Posted:Sep 29, 2016 5:09 am
Last Updated:Oct 3, 2016 11:10 am
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Good morning I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face.

Mine is definitely there.

I logged onto my page a couple of days ago.

I had a message from Local Adult Companion, telling me to update my email address to a new one.

I tried, and was told to call customer service.

Then I couldn't access my account.

This took a day to get fixed.

What bothered me the whole time, was someone else had my profile and personal information.

It had something to do with the recent email hack. Nobody could explain anything to me.

I was like, I can't access my profile, am I going to have to start over.

Am I going to have to find another site. I still like this site.

Needless to say it was eventually fixed, and here we are.

Now i know why some people were complaining about their emails acting weird.

The Internet gods took over. Just a reminder of how vulnerable we are.

Have a great day.
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My 6 year anniversary
Posted:Sep 19, 2016 6:44 am
Last Updated:Oct 14, 2016 4:55 am
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Good morning I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. My secret smile is waiting.

Yesterday was my 6 year anniversary here.

Who would have thought. Not me.

I started this on line stuff about 7 years ago. I am still on my first vanilla site.

I didn't expect to be on line this long.

I actually didn't expect to be on line dating at all.

It has been a very interesting journey.

I have had many wonderful experiences, and pleasurable experiences.

I also made a couple friends along the way.

For whatever reason, I have not crossed paths with the one yet.

Yes, I'm one of those that would prefer one and only.

Until that person appears, I will do my best to enjoy my life with exuberance.

Have a great day.
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This is how it goes
Posted:Sep 17, 2016 6:48 am
Last Updated:May 3, 2024 2:11 pm
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Good morning, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. I definitely would love that secret smile.

Last week, after being off for 5 days, I was headed to lima ohio with my crew for a job.

It was Tuesday. I had 6, yes I said 6 men start chatting with me off one of the vanilla sites.

It's been almost 2 weeks now since then.

I told one or more of them, I would be home this week. If they were still interested at that point we could meet.

How many do you think are talking to me. You could say 2.

I did do a meet n greet with one of them. I don't know if anything will evolve, we said we would see each other again. But it was in the air. His pictures were out of date. But we had a good time.

One is still talking to me, says he wants to meet yet. Who knows, I'm leaving for Cleveland on Tuesday. We will see.

The rest have moved on.

I have found the majority of men, here or on any site, are in the moment.

They want their playtime, and if you are not available at the moment, they move on.

That's a good thing, because I can find sex without being on a dating site of any sort.

Playtime is an important part of the equation, but I want more then that.

I'm not whining, just saying. The merry-go-round ride get tiring sometimes.

But, I'm not giving up. There is always hope.

I am on my week off at the moment. Enjoying my time with family and friends.

The elusive man, will start chatting me up on Tuesday, . After all, I will be leaving town again.

Have a wonderful day.
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One of my crazy dating experiences
Posted:Sep 16, 2016 7:41 am
Last Updated:Sep 17, 2016 5:44 am
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Good morning, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. It would be wonderful to see mine there.

Hope all is well in blog land. I still miss my buddy Mcmaniac's blogs. But such is life. Who know, maybe he will take a wild hair and come back.

I have been known to blog on some of my memorable experiences with men I have met here.

I have been a good Lil girl. Welllllllll, not today.

This blog is about a guy I met on a vanilla site, while working a job in lima ohio last week.

It was such of a crazy experience, it has to be written about.

He was using the sites GPS system and discovered I was close.

When he asked to meet, I blew him off, because I was only there for a week.

Needless to say, we met.

I had no preconceived notions about this, because, I wasn't looking for a stray, and I also figured I wouldn't see him after I left.

We actually hit it off, and decided to see each other again.

We had a great time the second night as well. He ended up sleeping with me but not playing with me.

That night, we were talking about sexual preferences and all that good stuff.

He told me his. It threw me for a loop for a minute. He likes to wear women's panties and bras, in private only.

He was very specific about everything.

In retrospect, that isn't a bad thing, and I was ok, I can do it. If that's what it takes to get him going I was up for it.

We went out again. One of our stops was an adult shop. We did make a purchase, and I got the most wonderful massage put of it.

He spent the night again, and and we did play.

He was a perfect gentleman, even though, I was up for the playtime.

Needless to say, the next night, he backed out. It was disappointing as, I was looking forward to a new experience.

When I was gone, he said he regretted not playing.

This man is far from what I would have expected as a cross dresser as he called himself.

He was a retired union mill worker. He rode a Harley, and was a rugged, outgoing in charge manly man. He made sure he met and talked to my crew every day as well.

What I enjoyed about him as well, was we got out and had some fun.

I was a Lil disappointed about the play time, but had an awesome three days, and like I said to my friends last night......

I didn't have to suck his dick, and I didn't have to fuck him. It's not often this happens. Not that playtime isn't part of the equation for most of us.

Will I see him again, if I'm in the area I will.

Have any of you had any surprises dropped on you out here.

Have a great day.
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I will miss my buddy, mcmaniac
Posted:Sep 5, 2016 6:30 pm
Last Updated:Sep 14, 2016 2:53 pm
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Good evening, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face.

I have been friends with a fellow blogger Mcmaniac, for a few years now.

He posted many excellant, funny blogs.

For whatever reasons, he packed his bags and left.

It was a pleasure reading your blogs, and messaging you as well.

You will be missed by this person very much.

Thank you for being my friend.

Have a good evening.
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